Telling a kid to "get off your phone to spend time with people" is a statement that makes no sense to someone who is engaging with more people through their phone than they are when they're off the phone.
Another natural cleaner you can try is tea! Steep two tea bags in boiling water for a few minutes. Pour the tea in a bucket. Dip your mop or a soft cloth in the tea, wring it out until it’s damp, and mop the floor.
The best advice I can give (or at least the tactic I’m trying to take) is to wait until you know yourself pretty well (take time to explore, take time to experiment), and then decide without too much dithering.