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    • chrissetiana
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      3 weeks ago

      There’s a psychological effect like gambling: the moments of tenderness and intimacy are unpredictable, but they are so intense and fulfilling that the victim winds up staying in the hopes that a moment like that will happen again.

      These moments make it so, so hard. They feed that little stubborn hope that things will now get better. Really sucks.