Ha! Foreplay rules! It’s the “wanting,” the tension of not having, the delay of any gratification, that’s hot - in my humble opinion. The slow build up, the nuanced gestures, really creative dialogue - all of it matters. Being present, in the moment, attending to each other. I remember a male friend complaining that his wife was frigid and she, when alone with me, confessing that her husband was a terrible lover and “taking matters into her own hands.” It’s an art, for sure. And foreplay should be an everyday way of living, not just prior to the “main event.”

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