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    Longreads | 5/20/20 | 14 min
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    • Pegeen
      1 month ago

      Ha! Foreplay rules! It’s the “wanting,” the tension of not having, the delay of any gratification, that’s hot - in my humble opinion. The slow build up, the nuanced gestures, really creative dialogue - all of it matters. Being present, in the moment, attending to each other. I remember a male friend complaining that his wife was frigid and she, when alone with me, confessing that her husband was a terrible lover and “taking matters into her own hands.” It’s an art, for sure. And foreplay should be an everyday way of living, not just prior to the “main event.”

    • bill
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      1 month ago


      1. Update (5/25/2020):

        Just realizing that I really enjoy reading about television which is kinda weird.