“I felt liberated when I started to accept that it wasn’t my job to mold relationships, that I could let my friendships and romantic relationships settle into their natural shape. That my only job was to figure out whether I was happy in them or not”
so beautifully said and often very difficult to put in practice.
“connection is our natural state; we just have to learn to permit it.”
This is Deeeeeep.
Will re-read again...especially if it ends up AOTD.
Incredible.
“I felt liberated when I started to accept that it wasn’t my job to mold relationships, that I could let my friendships and romantic relationships settle into their natural shape. That my only job was to figure out whether I was happy in them or not”
so beautifully said and often very difficult to put in practice.