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    The New York Times CompanyHeather Havrilesky12/24/2111 min
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    The New York Times Company
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    • chrissetiana
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      1 week ago

      When you treat them like they’re doing it wrong, it only gets worse.

      1. Update (1/5/2022):

        Sigh. This piece is really giving off sad, tired and bitter vibes. So much… hate.

    • DellwoodBarker
      2 weeks ago

      This is bitingly honest. Funny and real. The author is self-aware of what works and what doesn’t… though this read doesn’t sell me on my current state of decidedly not likely to get married (which means I will probably end up married. Lol)

    • kellyalysia
      2 weeks ago


      • Alexa
        2 weeks ago

        I couldn’t come up with anything beyond yikes either. Pretty cringe

      • bill
        Top reader of all timeScoutScribe
        2 weeks ago

        Damn. “Yikes” is right. I feel like the darkness beat the humor here.